@bestofdenis I understand you want to build custom features, however, no platform can always add the feature that you/few of them wish. Development takes time and not just a click.
If you are not a coder, you can get started via the Velo Forum: https://www.wix.com/velo/forum/getting-started
If you don’t want to learn anything, you can only find a coder via Wix Marketplace, otherwise, it is not possible to get done.
You cannot find someone to do it for you free or just copy the code.
Also, form spam does not take you any loss and IP address does not meant anything. VPN users can prevent from police tracking.