Thanks for everyone’s help, I"m hoping this will help someone else in the future.
Sorry for the horrible picture but it shows what needs to be done.
If someone runs into this error again it very well could be when they are first setting up the database and you are doing a lead form or application, that you need to select “Form Submission” and not “Site Contact”. Site contact will work in Preview but not live. Form Submission when selected will.
I hope that makes sense and again helps someone else who is searching for this fix.
Thanks