Member Bar/Area Issues

Hello Wix Community, I am having issues with my Member Area (built with code). When I click on My account it takes me to a read&write page as designed, however, I had hoped that I would automatically have TABS in the Member Area for all private pages presented from user generated content.

But that isn’t the case, there are no tabs, just the member’s profile. How do I get the desired result.

Additionally, I cannot seem to find the option to “filter the dataset by currently logged in user” in the dropdown from the dataset settings. Please advice.

I hope my query is clearly presented?

Thank you for your help.