Is there any way or interface which is provided, an external process can check if I am currently live streaming on my Wix site?
Like other streaming providers offer an interface API, where you can “ask” the server if user X is currently streaming and act accordingly (for instance, sending Email to your followers or publish the information on a chat etc. pp.).
You can expose an API on your site that allows an external service to check. However, it depends on how you are live streaming and on what type of notification that you want.
The Expose and Access Site APIs shows how to expose and access external APIs.
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